A sort of kinky nonsense i don’t relate with: Winning a mans heart.

This is actually a ranting post but i actually did not wake up angry yoooo.

So i got disgusted this morning when i saw the post title “Chioma Avril has succeeded in winning Davido’s heart by cooking tasty meals” on my timeline. I have never really paid attention to the suppression

of women in celebrity or all kinds of relationships but we would be having this conversations today!

The truth is Chioma did now WIN his heart, in the game of love the masculine gender is meant to go through the stress of winning the heart of the feminine gender. The reason why these bunch of news texters decided to make it seem like this but in my head is an image of Chioma pursuing Davido from stage to stage in every country with a pot of soup or a plate of food.

The mear fact that she knows how to prepare tasty meals should be an added advantage in a relationships, not the basis of it. He shouldn’t be painted as if their relationship is hanging on as a result of her cooking skills (which i am sure is not the situation).

Talking about how he has 3 baby mama’s and he still with Chioma instead of them, one question the fact that she isn’t pregnant yet, does it mean she lacks bedding skills? Oh you haven’t thought about that part, but nope the woman always has to be the weaker vessel, clinging on to a guy, holding him captive by virtue of a plate of food. Your personal Chef you can’t do without.

Honestly you will never read something like Olamide won the heart of his baby mama with his cooking skills haba! We should all stop painting this beautiful notion that the ability to cook or clean or have an active sex life is a guarantee that a man or woman really loves you and he or she is ready to stay with you only because of that factor.

Chioma knows how to cook tasty meals period don’t go futher by capitalizing on it. If food was the only way to a man’s heart we actually will have fat idiots all over!

LESSONS

1) I am actually not saying that you shouldn’t do things like cooking, Lundrary or any form of whatever you want to do for your significant other. All i am saying is do not let these things be the basis of your relationship or marriage. If you take all these things off the table would he/she still love you?

2) I had a conversation with a friend yesterday and he mentioned that he would warn his future wife against getting too fat after their marriage and this made me wonder, i get physical allure is good and all but is that all she is existing for? For you? Not even taking her opinion into consideration

3) I am strongly advising a sit down moment before and during marriage, talk about all these things from closing a refrigerator door to having children because Godforbid we fall into the hands of masochistic partners.

Thoughts anyone…